Divorce is tough for everyone involved, but becomes more difficult when children are caught in the middle. Even on the best terms, parents tend to become very emotionally charged in manners dealing with their children — and, rightfully so. When you are involved in a heated custody battle, it’s important to remain level-headed and mind your p’s and q’s. Being on your best behavior is important modeling for your children, but is also important for your own sanity, the emotional well-being of your children, but it can also affect the outcome of your case.

As experienced Colorado family lawyers fighting for the rights of Arapahoe County families, we’d like to offer you some tips on what to avoid during a custody battle.

Speaking Poorly Of The Other Parent

It is common that one (or both) parents speak ill of the other, especially in the height of a divorce, but it’s important to remember that not only is the other parent half of your child’s love and support system whom they love very much, but everything you say can (and will be) used against you in your custody hearing. Speaking poorly of the other parent can be used against you in open court and is generally looked down upon. Choose your words and watch your behavior during the custody battle.